1. Focus fully on speaker.
  2. Avoid interrupting their thoughts.
  3. Maintain consistent eye contact.
  4. Show interest through nods.
  5. Reflect on what’s shared.
  6. Ask clarifying questions kindly.
  7. Paraphrase to confirm understanding.
  8. Stay patient, avoid rushing responses.
  9. Notice speaker’s tone changes.
  10. Respond with empathy always.
  11. Summarise key points briefly.
  12. Avoid forming premature opinions.
  13. Use encouraging verbal cues.
  14. Clarify unclear points politely.
  15. Respect pauses in conversation.
  16. Avoid multitasking while listening.
  17. Keep body language open.
  18. Avoid jumping to solutions.
  19. Ask open-ended questions thoughtfully.
  20. Validate speaker’s feelings genuinely.
  21. Stay curious, not judgemental.
  22. Respect their emotional boundaries.
  23. Recognise unspoken cues attentively.
  24. Avoid making assumptions prematurely.
  25. Repeat important details occasionally.
  26. Avoid imposing personal views.
  27. Reflect on speaker’s emotions.
  28. Encourage elaboration with questions.
  29. Be present in moment.
  30. Observe non-verbal communication carefully.
  31. Acknowledge speaker’s perspective openly.
  32. Stay calm and composed.
  33. Refrain from defensive reactions.
  34. Minimise external distractions immediately.
  35. Seek deeper understanding sincerely.
  36. Avoid correcting unnecessarily mid-speech.
  37. Stay engaged, not reactive.
  38. Be respectful during disagreements.
  39. Give undivided attention consistently.
  40. Restate shared concerns briefly.
  41. Listen beyond the words.
  42. Appreciate their shared insights.
  43. Seek clarity before responding.
  44. Focus on what’s unsaid.
  45. Avoid dominating the discussion.
  46. Keep an open mind.
  47. Respond to speaker’s priorities.
  48. Show gratitude for sharing.
  49. Be curious, not critical.
  50. Stay attentive to details.
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